Keep it simple.....I am loving...I am happy

To bring up happy, healthy, loving, caring and aware children, parents need to be aware of their upbringing. Children brought up with love, care and awareness will reflect all these virtues in their life when they lead their life as adults.
 A Mother not only nurtures her child by attending to them, she gives her loving energy by her presence, which child absorbs. An aware parent will be mindful of their limiting beliefs and will work on them, so that he or she can offer their best.
As a parents we are creating lifelong experiences for our children which are going to stay with them for life. They are going to replicate the life as per the programming of their experience decode. So, it is a big responsibility as a parent to bring up healthy, happy and aware children. If we can take care of few things, we will leave behind a healthy legacy.

1. Parents should spend time with their children. They should form a loving relationship with them. Communicate with them with lot of love, care and friendly approach, where they have lot of fun together.
2. Parents should involve their children in small house tasks that will make them responsible. Taking care of younger siblings, cleaning duties, feeding pet, little duties will make them responsible.
3. Involving your child in decision making for things which matter to them. Take your child for shopping, make shopping list. Ask their suggestions while buying dress or gift for a family member or a friend. Involve them in organising parties, making a guest list, sending invitations or menu for the food.
4. Cultivate the habit of reading, by bringing books for them when they are little. Reading to them, going library regularly, listening to story time. As they grow up encourage them to read wide variety of books. Books are a great company.
5. Cut their time of TV watching, video games or internet. Interaction with technology most of the time make them dull and passive. Young brain is very creative and fertile. Video games makes them angry and violent because most of the games are based on these, it is like feeding your mind with violence. Modern gadgets drain their energy. Interacting with nature or playing with other children is much more better. Also, excessive use of technology limit them to themselves and they find it hard to develop socially.
6. To cultivate good habits like getting up early, brushing teeth, taking bath everyday. Keeping their room and things tidy. Eating healthy food, with good intake of fruit, vegetables and water. Avoiding fizzy drinks, coffee and junk food. Eating breakfast before going to school, doing homework and being organised.
7. Children should be brought up with lot of love and encouragement. They should be able to say yes to help and take challenge. When they are loved and supported they fill themselves with joy, love and enthusiasm. They should be encouraged to learn music, dance, sports or learning any instrument which will keep them happy and bubbly. Children brought with love and awareness are much more stronger in themselves and they can withstand peer pressure and will not indulge in drugs, alcohol or sex at early ages.

To have healthy society, it is important that we pay attention to how we bring up our children. We should be mindful of their upbringing and that should be our number one priority, to take care of them.